You’ve finally found the girl you’d love to call your own but you have no idea on how you can make her officially yours. Every time you try to ask her, you end up nervous and sometimes even at the point of being nauseous.
The following tips can help you man up to the girl of your dreams without chickening out:
Know your reasons
Reassure yourself that she’s the perfect choice, by doing the following:
- Spend time with her to know her better
- Check if she makes you a better person in general. How does she treat other people? What does she do behind their back?
- Know your common interests and spend time with her doing the things you can both enjoy
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Does she feel the same way?
In order to gain confidence in asking her, you have to make sure she feels the same way.
- Never ask too early , it may scare her away
- Always be observant, listen to what she says and does
- Be-friend her friends (remember that spice girls song?)
Find the perfect time to ask her
You will know the perfect time when the feeling is right. Make sure of the following as well:
- Set the right tone without overdoing it
- Choose the right time of day. Make sure she’s not busy.
- Go mysterious but plan ahead. This way, she’ll end up curious to know what is up
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The right attitude
Having the right attitude also helps out big time. It can also help you through the conversation so you can gather up the confidence to finally ask her to be yours.